I wonder how guys do it! It is so easy for girls to turn down guys but do we think about the courage it takes for them to ask for our numbers or bb pins (in the case of a blackberry). I mean the way we (girls) just squeeze our faces at the sight of a guy walking up to us just because he doesn't tick 'every' box in our list of the ‘ideal’ guy. I am very guilty of that. Most especially when I am looking my best. I tend to be very strict as to whom I share a conversation with when approached. Shallow or Defensive?!!!!
Anyways, would you or would you not chat up a guy you are attracted to? At some point in a woman’s life this question would come up. To be honest, it isn’t that much of a puzzle. Just depends on how confident you are. For some it would be a confidence booster. Though, like guys, you have to know when to persevere and when to call it quits. It seems so tactical thinking about it. :-s
Maybe I would do it one day… probably at a place outside my area where I am very unlikely to bump into my ‘victim’ if it goes bad. -_- . lol
Jokes apart, it would be so much fun making this a girlies must-do on a boring night-out. Think simple… harmless…fun. :o) xxx
Ha-ha! Okay, I think I'll only chat a guy up first for fun. If I want something serious with a guy, I couldn't do it. Why? Because the guy will probably go with the flow, whether or not he plans to take you seriously, just so he can score some.
ReplyDeletenot necessarily. some guys like the fact that such women know what they want and are confident to go after it. i think that whether a guy goes on to take the girl seriously is independent of who approaches who first. I might try it but in a different zoneeee lol
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